"Asking a partner, 'What's wrong?' is a bit like asking 'Who are you,
again?' As partners, we should know. Others may not know and are not
required to know, but we most certainly are. That's our job, and that's
why we're paid the big buck! We do for our partners what others would
not want to do because they don't really care.
"Of course, our
guesses will not be correct a hundred percent of the time. I'm not
suggesting you need to be clairvoyant." - Stan Tatkin, Psy.D. in Wired for Love
I
love the knowing that he writes about. We should know the ones we
love. And, too, they should know us. That is why it takes time to
develop real relationships.
Renee Madison, MA, LPC, CSAT is a counselor in Colorado. She can be reached for appointments at 303-257-7623 or 970-324-6928
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